tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56477773863972911332024-02-19T00:50:34.653-08:00tochi@success storieshuman resource, people development and nation buildersTochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-4410633085572743532011-09-26T07:19:00.000-07:002011-09-26T07:19:47.582-07:00HOW TO HANDLE DEPRESSION<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmYDW_YzIwQDPMR8cym1-gXpxaKtVEqsUWzkdDRFxny1UABqrG_CR2oHbiN3K15e12elc0WDlliTHNjjUKsht-g-BFSXrRV-y0HHs7KG8SRj8k_6n9f6Rx2auZhuTpPNHnGk21MScaadQ_/s1600/depression.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmYDW_YzIwQDPMR8cym1-gXpxaKtVEqsUWzkdDRFxny1UABqrG_CR2oHbiN3K15e12elc0WDlliTHNjjUKsht-g-BFSXrRV-y0HHs7KG8SRj8k_6n9f6Rx2auZhuTpPNHnGk21MScaadQ_/s1600/depression.jpg" /></a></div>I read a note recently titled ‘Depression is a tool’ by John Igbinovia…brilliant piece I must say. it sent my mind on a voyage of recollection of past experiences, thus inspiring this write up.<br />
I often ask myself; how did I get to this point? I once would not have imagined that it was possible to live a life without depression and mood swings. I mean, my emotions would toss, turn, squeeze and rumple me at will, as a teenager, my heart was perpetually plagued by dismay, I walked around with a burdened perspective of life and an overwhelming sense of defeat, I was angry, bitter and often very depressed.<br />
Let me start by saying, without respect to what the books on psychology and psychotherapy say, there is no excuse logical enough upon which we can premise the existence of depression, it is usually not because of some gigantic mountain you think you may be facing, there are some people who by chance have been lavished with life’s generous benefits, yet they seldom experience the genuinty of a carefree smile…Depression is a deeply rooted evil that latches unto your mind by disguising itself in the subtle appearance of your heart’s burden. It is an enemy of destiny and a strategy of the kingdom of darkness. Her ultimate goal is to steal your Joy and dash your hopes, for indeed man cannot thrive without hope anymore than fish can survive without water. She has lured great men to heights of instability, complacency and dejection, often driving them to seek escape in alcohol and such other wanton behavior, she takes your eyes off God’s purpose for you and places it on your person, Self pity and sorrow thus becomes familiar companions.<br />
Oh, what trickery, what sly deceit, that a man created to be a god, with leadership and dominion, should begin to feel sorry for himself. Fortunately, this defeatist syndrome can be curbed and cured with proactive measures till at last it loses it’s sway over you. Below are some strategies that I have personally employed:<br />
<ul><li> A HEART OF PRAISE: it is impossible to be angry and joyful by the same person, to the same degree and at the same time. Praise turns on the light bulb in the darkness, it sets your heart on a quest of hope, it focuses on God and therefore takes your mind off yourself. It is a potent weapon of warfare, and do not deride yourself with notions that you have to feel like it. Life may knock you down, but it can’t steal the melody in your heart…that is your exclusive right.</li>
<li>A COUNTENANCE OF JOY: this naturally flows from your praise, be industrious when it comes to trading in your sorrows, Joy is a deliberate act of faith, often defying logic. You really don’t need a reason to be happy…be happy anyway! Perhaps you just came out of a break up, you feel a tad overweight, business is not going as expected or you are just tired of sending out job applications, resist the allure of a heavy spirit. When it get’s dark, don’t get gloomy, count the stars! Look for the beauties around you, no one is without a benefit, hold your head up high and act like you own the world…like they say, fake it until you take it. Joy releases a certain form of attraction on you and positions you for increase.</li>
<li> A SPIRIT OF LOVE: love is the ultimate tool of victory, the perfect antidote of self pity, anger and bitterness. While praise will get your focus on God, love will get your focus on people. Scripture posits that perfect love casts out fear. Love is the light that dispels the darkness, it is a language that evil cannot understand, it fills your heart with peace and gives your heart something to hold unto, love takes your mind off the pain and crowns your joy with renewed strength and confidence. A spirit/heart of love always seeks what it will do for others and not what others can do for it. End your quest for blessings and start to be a channel through which others may be blessed. You get the highest gratification, when you dare to live for others.</li>
<li>A TENACIOUS FAITH: Faith is the substance of your hope, a hope of continuity, a hope of victory and a hope of restorations. Your faith is your resolve to continue inspite of your tears. The tenacity of your faith is a direct reflection of your knowledge of God and exposure to his word, find out what God says about your situation and corroborate his word with your words. If you see as he sees, and speak as he speaks, it is only a matter of time, you will be as he be! This is our certain reality that no temptation exists which was designed to consume us. Let your emotions conform to the will of God, give him complete reliance, resting your back on the cushion of his love, casting your cares and surrendering your worries…Faith keeps your head afloat.</li>
<li>A HABIT OF PRAYER: Paul speaking says that the weapons of our warfare are mighty in battle, to the pulling down of strongholds and casting down imaginations and all other things that raises itself against the knowledge of God. Prayer is Power for Purpose. It s our sphere if influence where we create our desired future by spilling forth mysteries in the spirit. Prayer equips you to stand strong in the face of adversity.</li>
</ul>I do not presume to be an authority on the above subject matter, but I do have the boast of one with tested experience and overcoming victory. Depression has lost it’s sway over me since I embraced the above realities, it has become an echo from a very distant past, and to that effect, anyone can overcome depression.<br />
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With love, a huge smile and a piece of apple<br />
© Tochi EZE<br />
26TH September 2011.<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal">I was reading the story of Esau selling his birthright as accounted n Genesis 25, and I must admit, I felt a sense of pity for him. I mean, what could possibly have been the crime of a young man who had been out all day in pursuit of his livelihood, who comes home ravenous with hunger and is assaulted by the heady sensation of his brother’s of stew. What is<span> </span>the moral justification for a man, whose scheming mind and devious trickery, plotted to cheat his brother out of his birth right?</div><div class="MsoNormal">By the way, this is not me seeking to embark on a blasphemous expedition, Jacob na my guy, so un-alarm your minds. However, I’m just saying that on the face of things, Esau’s actions could almost easily be justified. So the question is…why? Why does an action that is fraught with reason completely lack in godly justification? I sat pondering, not completely understanding, trying not to validate his fate or endorse his supposed judgment, I only sought the wisdom behind the turn of events.</div><div class="MsoNormal">*COMPROMISE*</div><div class="MsoNormal">The maiden name of settlement, the bridge between your standard and what is obtainable, a thin rope that makes desire parallel with logic, a bending of truths and concession of values. In my mind’s understanding, compromise simply means selling your future for today’s fleeting pleasures, a sentence which depicts Esau’s very deed.</div><div class="MsoNormal">In today’s age of enlightenment, compromise has become a logically acceptable platform for any kind of actualization, whether in our government, business and even in our relationships. The earth is fraught with structures that make us believe that we can’t always have what we want and so life situations teach us to trade in our values, “if the plan will not work, why don’t you bend it a little”.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Unfortunately, for the believer, compromise is an abominable conduct, it is the vehicle you drive on the road to disaster, it is a reflection of watery convictions and it invalidates your faith. Compromise is a major trick of the devil, his weapon of suggestive manipulation. He tells a young lady to sell her values by sleeping with a man in order to keep him, thereby compromising the virtue of sexual chastity. GOD gives us a vision of our future, a standard he expects of us through his word, yet we perambulate about with the idea that godly virtue is an impossible task.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Compromise is the absence of Faith,<span> </span>we trade In our innermost desires and deride ourselves with notions of being realistic, if Esau knew God enough, he would have realized that his hunger would not have killed him, in that it was merely a temporary inconvenience testing the responsibility of his faith. I don’t know what it is that you have been holding out for, stand strong on belief and do not dare to look back on the temporary road of convenience. God despises our compromise, stand on his word and the veracity of its truth.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Believe God…against all odds!!!</div><div class="MsoNormal">With dexterous faith and relentless hope</div><div class="MsoNormal">© Tochi Eze</div><div class="MsoNormal">September 20, 2011</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal">I was reading the story of Esau selling his birthright as accounted n Genesis 25, and I must admit, I felt a sense of pity for him. I mean, what could possibly have been the crime of a young man who had been out all day in pursuit of his livelihood, who comes home ravenous with hunger and is assaulted by the heady sensation of his brother’s of stew. What is<span> </span>the moral justification for a man, whose scheming mind and devious trickery, plotted to cheat his brother out of his birth right?</div><div class="MsoNormal">By the way, this is not me seeking to embark on a blasphemous expedition, Jacob na my guy, so un-alarm your minds. However, I’m just saying that on the face of things, Esau’s actions could almost easily be justified. So the question is…why? Why does an action that is fraught with reason completely lack in godly justification? I sat pondering, not completely understanding, trying not to validate his fate or endorse his supposed judgment, I only sought the wisdom behind the turn of events.</div><div class="MsoNormal">*COMPROMISE*</div><div class="MsoNormal">The maiden name of settlement, the bridge between your standard and what is obtainable, a thin rope that makes desire parallel with logic, a bending of truths and concession of values. In my mind’s understanding, compromise simply means selling your future for today’s fleeting pleasures, a sentence which depicts Esau’s very deed.</div><div class="MsoNormal">In today’s age of enlightenment, compromise has become a logically acceptable platform for any kind of actualization, whether in our government, business and even in our relationships. The earth is fraught with structures that make us believe that we can’t always have what we want and so life situations teach us to trade in our values, “if the plan will not work, why don’t you bend it a little”.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Unfortunately, for the believer, compromise is an abominable conduct, it is the vehicle you drive on the road to disaster, it is a reflection of watery convictions and it invalidates your faith. Compromise is a major trick of the devil, his weapon of suggestive manipulation. He tells a young lady to sell her values by sleeping with a man in order to keep him, thereby compromising the virtue of sexual chastity. GOD gives us a vision of our future, a standard he expects of us through his word, yet we perambulate about with the idea that godly virtue is an impossible task.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Compromise is the absence of Faith,<span> </span>we trade In our innermost desires and deride ourselves with notions of being realistic, if Esau knew God enough, he would have realized that his hunger would not have killed him, in that it was merely a temporary inconvenience testing the responsibility of his faith. I don’t know what it is that you have been holding out for, stand strong on belief and do not dare to look back on the temporary road of convenience. God despises our compromise, stand on his word and the veracity of its truth.</div><div class="MsoNormal">Believe God…against all odds!!!</div><div class="MsoNormal">With dexterous faith and relentless hope</div><div class="MsoNormal">© Tochi Eze</div><div class="MsoNormal">September 20, 2011</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-56915128722228757032011-07-22T04:58:00.000-07:002011-07-22T04:58:29.922-07:00Hearty Cheers to Mothers<div class="mbl notesBlogText clearfix"><div>First, let me use this platform to share my thoughts and express my opinion on the idea of a mother. It’s every woman’s dream to bear and nurse a child in her bosom, right from teenage years and adolescence, a girl fantasizes on the concept of romance, marriage, and family. However, motherhood is not merely about child bearing, it’s beyond the painful pangs of nature in the labor room, it’s inconsequential that you carry a child for several months in your womb, even an incubator can do that.<br />
Biology has so limited our understanding of motherhood that we have failed and forgotten to understand it’s true meaning.<br />
Motherhood is a state of the heart, it is spiritual and it is a calling from God.<br />
Science may deny you a labor room experience but it cannot rob you off the Joy of motherhood.<br />
Motherhood is God’s purpose for every woman, and you don’t have to wait for a test result to step into the role of a mother, you don’t have to discriminate between your child and the help, you need show no special fondness or favoritism, this may seem impossible, but we must awake to this consciousness. It breaks my heart, to see women of estimable calling and destinies get lost in the tedious task of petting and pampering their children, oblivious to the things around them that are screaming for their touch. It cuts deep into me to see women loose sight of life’s meaning, all because they yet to be graced with a nine month experience.<br />
Motherhood is essentially role play, stepping into the shoes of a ready nurturer and caretaker, it is not limited to the genetics of your x and y chromosome, and hence should not be restricted to that.<br />
Motherhood is thinking of hungry and unsheltered children even while nursing your own, it is nurturing a seeming destitute even whilst waiting for your own, it is the heart that constantly cries for hope and the hand that consciously reaches to help.<br />
Motherhood is a divine assignment, a spiritual partnership with heaven, it is the highest call of service and yet highly unregarded, a call of nature that has been answered by very few.<br />
Having said all these, there’s a set of mothers I’d like to celebrate. Women who have been bold in their resolve to show love to humanity, who have dared to look beyond the tears rolling down their nose, women whose contribution to society has depicted the true nature of sacrifice, I mean, the mother Theresa’s of our time, and there are quite a number of them.<br />
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To the mother who cries night after night, praying for a child from her womb, believing in a hope that belies medical evidence, yet, daily gracing friends and colleagues with a smile as bright as light, remaining submissive and virtuous, even in the glaring face of hunting in-laws, whose only cry is for a child or her blood.<br />
To the single mother, who was confident enough to embrace a mistake, resolving to nurse a teenage pregnancy, blinding her eyes to the tempting option of an abortion. Quick to embrace parental rebuke and societal condemnation, without a man, she steps into the role of father and mother, and what an excellent job she does.<br />
To the mother who was once married, who was betrayed, beaten and kicked out of a marriage she had carefully built her life around. Who have faced the sharp slicing pain of rejection, denied custody of the children, yet, living each day deliberately conscious of her value and her contribution to the society, refusing to take a No from Life.<br />
To the mothers who are all around us, teaching us, scolding us, loving us against all odds, award winning mothers who have compromised career opportunities, battled between promotions, maternity leave, and PTA’s, To every woman, who though did not birth us, have loved us, at every time where it really mattered. Nannies, teachers, aunties, girlfriends, wives all round us ,mothering us.<br />
Finally, to the very special apple of my eye, the woman after my heart, A mother in whom I am well pleased, , super woman with a super heart, so what if you are not on facebook? I still think you are cool. Lol!<br />
Hearty cheers to my mum, and to every mother; I love you all…MWUAH!!!<br />
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© Tochi Eze<br />
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</div></div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-82087900736231483742011-07-22T04:56:00.000-07:002011-07-22T04:56:12.386-07:00DREAMS COME TRUE!!!Dreams come true; I know your heart is laden with the heavy burden of an idea, plan, vision or mandate, you run with a pure passion to fulfill purpose and your quest for relevance has become a source of motivation. In the night season, when the imaginations of your heart are seeking for a voice, crying to be heard and begging to be seen, be rest assured that your restlessness is divinely ordained.<br />
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Dreams come true; although doubt may plague your mind, her vicious grip choking the faith right out of you, the bitter memories of yesterday’s fall leaves you trembling in dismay, and wondering if you labor in vain expectation, be strong in believe, for greater feats have been achieved by men of smaller frames, and the one who gave the dream will surely bring it to pass.<br />
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Dreams come true; and in bright and vivid pictures too. It doesn’t really matter how lofty or ludicrous yours may be. So whether it is to be president or pope, baker or barrister, if your desire is noble, you will inspire the divine force that drives dreams into reality.<br />
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Dreams come true; yes, all things are possible! So vanquish your fear, for your faith will find expression in tangible substance. You will awake in the morning to a song of celebration, as life’s delicacy will be laid before you in an open invitation to a glorious feast of fulfillment.<br />
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Dreams come true; they may be processed in the incubator of time, delayed but will not be denied, because eventually, time will unfold, whether in a minute or in a millennium, the Heavens will open, God will remember you and Destiny will happen!<br />
(c) Tochi EzeTochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-47880808143551883302011-07-22T04:54:00.000-07:002011-07-22T04:54:08.440-07:00A LESSON ON FORGIVENESS!<div class="mbl notesBlogText clearfix"><div>Life throws you hard punches, painful blows that are hardly ever fair. Often times you are betrayed by the people you love, our trust is breached and our pride is bruised. Things happen that leaves us hurt and we are left to heal in the embers of time; unfortunately, time heals the wound but doesn’t always clear the scars and so you are stuck with the glaring consequence of a painful past.<br />
How do you even begin to deal with issues that tears at the security of your heart? How does a man handle the infidelity of his wife? I mean you take an oath for better or worse yet nothing really prepares you for the sharp stab of pain that comes from catching your wife physically entangled with your home plumber. Perhaps that is a tad extreme, not everybody experiences that in a lifetime yet we all have our personal betrayals and bouts of depression.<br />
Parents betray Children and vice versa, bestfriends lie or suddenly change, a business partner dupes you, colleagues frame you up at work, someone steps on you in the market, the customer rep in the bank talks rudely to you…Sometimes it almost seems the world is out to ruin your good intentions, but in all of this I have learnt to deal with unwholesome situations not the way I feel but as God in his word would have me respond. Basically, to FORGIVE!!!<br />
Let me share something I have learnt, Forgiveness is not the aftermath of an apology and it is not always served best with a hot meal of repentance; Forgiveness is a higher dimension of faith, an expression of the ultimate command of love, and a gift to the offender but moreso to yourself. It is a Bold assertion of spiritual maturity and it bears with it complete healing and restoration from all the hurts.<br />
Granted, it is no small a feat but look at it from the perspective a friend shared with me ‘we have been forgiven to forgive’ Yes, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. I don’t know what it is you’ve been through and I will not presume to put myself in your shoes, but I will tell you one thing, your ability to forgive is a major factor in your Life’s growth.<br />
So whether you were sexually abused by a family member as a child,<br />
<strong>LET IT GO!</strong><br />
Your spouse was and is still cheating on you,<br />
<strong>LET IT GO!</strong><br />
Your pastor/cell leader takes advantage of you,<br />
<strong>LET IT GO!</strong><br />
You’ve been spited, slighted and gossiped about,<br />
<strong>LET IT GO!</strong><br />
You experienced a major breakup for which you did nothing,<br />
<strong>LET IT GO!</strong><br />
Often misjudged, misinterpreted, misinformed,<br />
<strong>LET IT ALL GO!!</strong><br />
Take a decision to love regardless of whatever; it is an act of faith and one that Heaven does not overlook. To do otherwise will amount to a Life of unfruitfulness; like a tree planted by rivers of water yet only decays.<br />
Do it for the offender, do it for God and do it for yourself.<br />
© Tochi Eze<br />
July 15th 2011</div></div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-41129278873882772572011-04-15T10:13:00.000-07:002011-04-15T10:13:04.527-07:00THE PLAGUE OF INDECISION<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves/> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:DoNotPromoteQF/> <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark/> <w:DontVertAlignCellWithSp/> <w:DontBreakConstrainedForcedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> <w:Word11KerningPairs/> <w:CachedColBalance/> </w:Compatibility> <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> <m:mathPr> <m:mathFont m:val="Cambria Math"/> <m:brkBin m:val="before"/> <m:brkBinSub m:val="--"/> <m:smallFrac m:val="off"/> <m:dispDef/> <m:lMargin m:val="0"/> <m:rMargin m:val="0"/> <m:defJc m:val="centerGroup"/> <m:wrapIndent m:val="1440"/> <m:intLim m:val="subSup"/> <m:naryLim m:val="undOvr"/> </m:mathPr></w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" DefUnhideWhenUsed="true"
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Man is an unconscious product of his thought process, and his life is a mirrored reflection of his decision making. Every thing about your life is hinged on a decision, be it the choice of a life partner, a career path, or better still, the journey to your life’s purpose. We live in a world where choices rule tomorrow, and seldom will a man attain any great feat, without having to first take a decision or a stand.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> All these truths, and yet, indecision is a disease that has plagued the human mind for as long as time. It seems that so many of us journey through life as spectators, too afraid to jump into the pitch and play the game.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> I don’t know what major step it is that you have to take or why you are finding it so difficult to commit to that good cause. How long will you fold your hands and expect lightening to strike you and say ‘ this is the way’?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> Friends, time and chance is too much of a risk for you to leave your destiny to them, you can get a grip on the handle of your life by the choices you make.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">Scripture speaking says, ‘ I have set before you life and death, choose ye life, that you make live’. Don’t you see that you were neither destined to live nor die, you were destined to Choose! Your choices determine your consequences, and as such we must strive to make the right decision, hinged on sound moral, biblical principles.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> Now, haven known the importance of choices in shaping our outcomes, why still dance around the mountain of options? Haven been presented with life and death, why must we think it over a cup of tea? Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you shouldn’t investigate your facts and table out your findings, but having done all our homework, why do we relent in crossing the red sea? </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> Indecision is a war I have fought for most of my life, and I am slowly winning the war, basically because I came to address one of the major reasons for my indecision…Fear!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">What is it that makes a seven year old child so certain that he would be a pilot when he grows up, and yet a boardroom executive cannot make a decision as to the out turn of a meeting? Could it be because the child is yet untainted with the harsh realities of life? Has our knowledge, exposure and experience become our greatest limitations?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We so much fear the consequence of a wrong choice and so we settle for a worse lot which is no choice at all. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> We need to understand that the earth is constantly in motion, and I doubt if creation will wait for you to make up your mind. Sometimes, we need to embrace the blind gullibility of our childhood again, otherwise called Faith, believing in yourself, your dreams and the power of God answered prayers.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"> That business idea may never kick off if you keep weighing the risk of failure, that project will likely not be implemented, if you don’t get up and Go for it, either way, whatever action you take towards the actualization of your destiny, must start with a decision.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">So get up dear, Get up right now…commit that plan to God, and go make it happen!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; tab-stops: 287.25pt; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-45942486819615498492011-01-13T11:17:00.005-08:002011-01-17T03:18:59.688-08:00SEVEN CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD TEAM PLAYER<m:smallfrac m:val="off"> <m:dispdef> <m:lmargin m:val="0"> <m:rmargin m:val="0"> <m:defjc m:val="centerGroup"> <m:wrapindent m:val="1440"> <m:intlim m:val="subSup"> <m:narylim m:val="undOvr"> </m:narylim></m:intlim> </m:wrapindent> </m:defjc></m:rmargin></m:lmargin></m:dispdef></m:smallfrac><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">First, let me start by saying that the earth has been structured to function and operate in teams. Now let me shock you further, the world wasn’t created by God alone,…it was created by his team.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">‘ and God said, LET US make man in OUR image and after OUR likeness’ GENESIS. Before that the Holy Spirit, we are told hovered over the deep, before the word went forth.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Secondly, man being designed to look and act like God, was made to function in teams. ‘ it is not good for man to be alone, I will make him another helper’ GENESIS.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Contrary to most of our belief, team work is not limited to sport pitches or work schedules/tasks. No, team work permeates everyday of our every day living. Every man therefore is a potential team player.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Now before you would wonder why you would even want to be a team player, let’s look at some of the essential benefits of team work.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">·<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Division of labor</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">·<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Pooling of resources</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">·<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Mutual encouragement and motivation</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">·<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Companionship</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">There we have it, so back to the point of this write-up; what are the characteristics of a good team player?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">1.<b><i>He knows the game:</i></b> it has been said that when the purpose of a thing is not known, it’s abuse is inevitable. It is therefore pertinent, that at every stage or project of your life, you must know your purpose and your relevance there. A good team player must understand the project at hand, whether it be marriage, ministry, business partnership or a work related task.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">2.<b><i>He knows his teammates: </i></b>‘shall two walk together except they agree’ AMOS, Jesus Christ speaking says ‘I and my Father are one’. This basically connotes intimacy. There are no two ways about it, you simply cannot work with someone you don’t know, and I mean a tested and applied knowledge. Knowledge of your teammates helps you draw out their strengths and make up for their excesses.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">3<b><i>.He is willing to share:</i></b> A good team player must be a lover, a giver and a sharer. Jesus Christ speaking says ‘all that my father has, he has given to me’. Whether it be in the form of ideas in the workplace or valued time in consensual relationships, each team player must be willing to let go and let his team member get.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">4.<b><i>He must sacrifice:</i></b> ‘for God so loved the world, that He gave us his only begotten son’ JOHN. That same begotten son gave up his only begotten life, both sacrifices made at no small cost. A good team player knows how to put the needs of others above his, especially where it is sure to yield a far weightier glory.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">5.<b><i>He does his best:</i></b> A good team player does al he knows to do, suffers long, endures hardships , misunderstanding and sometimes even betrayals by his fellow team mates, but he takes it all in good stride, he ensure that his side of the out put is not affected by all these, he put his best effort to ensure that the project is carried through.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">6.<b><i>He sees it through:</i></b> Just before he gave up the ghost, Jesus Christ said ‘it is finished’. A good team player will never pull out of an uncompleted task. It is against his values because it is an ultimate sign of failure. He is in it from start to finish, in his marriage for instance, there is NO such thing as divorce.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">7.<b><i>He gets his credit:</i></b> team work is always rewarded, and a good team player will always be accorded honor and recognition for the contributions and sacrifices he made. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">There is always a reward!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">Team work is essential to vital living, you were born alone, granted, but you were not made to function alone.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">© Toch Eze. 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</div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-2533988580945919912011-01-05T06:35:00.000-08:002011-01-05T06:38:30.037-08:00THE PROCESS OF TIME...And God said to Abraham being 75 at the time, leave your home to the place I will show you and I will make you into a great nation.<br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpf_G2AEkz6b1BcmSbk-N-EgjvCNBjDGE3-a_l5w7e5Xhv1tDVBY3oIVh7XyRYeNF5k4GnHJIoD7oSaeVsP4ZZoCoBd10WXsvaL-8FL1Lk-LFAsFBOM0nV3_UrOciopiyj88WCg40SJFxQ/s1600/my+time.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" n4="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpf_G2AEkz6b1BcmSbk-N-EgjvCNBjDGE3-a_l5w7e5Xhv1tDVBY3oIVh7XyRYeNF5k4GnHJIoD7oSaeVsP4ZZoCoBd10WXsvaL-8FL1Lk-LFAsFBOM0nV3_UrOciopiyj88WCg40SJFxQ/s1600/my+time.jpg" /></a>Isaac eventually was born by Sarah to Abraham who was a 100 years of age at the time. Now, I don’t know about you but 25 years seems like a heck of a long time to keep a promise, however what marvels me was not the fact that the promise eventually came to be, but rather the endurance level of Abraham, who no doubt deserves an award of 25 years of confident belief, loyalty.</div>My focus on this article is neither on Abraham nor the promise but on the 25 years waiting period.<br />
Those 25 years represent a lengthy and uncertain period of expectancy, those 25 years represent an opportunity to stand at the edge of a mountain with a risk of falling, they represent the fear and possibility of broken dreams and unfulfilled expectations, they represent an opportunity for self development and enlargement to accommodate the promise, they represent a firm decision to stand resolute in your belief, for a better future, better hope and a better nation, those 25 years represent the uncomfortable situation that most of us are going through, those 25 years have a name and it is called ‘ the process of time’.<br />
Sure enough, it is a necessary junction in our journey of life, some of us have been there and most of us are still there. I’d like to point out that the process of time is not a waste of time, it is merely a pause in transit to enable us offload our excesses and refuel for the journey ahead.<br />
Don’t despise your process of time, and more importantly, don’t let any one despise your process of time. Don’t even think about compromising your values because that vision will come through and that mountain will be made low. It takes patience to stay in the process of time because like all other processes, it involves procedures.<br />
Friend, I have just one message for you, DON’T GIVE UP! Hold unto your dream. Hold unto your belief, hold unto that promise. That is the virtue of success. Keep the faith fire burning, like any process, whether 2 months or 25 years, the time limit will come, and just like any vision with an appointed time, all we are expected to do is write and wait.<br />
© Tochi Eze 2011Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-68542245021535483172010-12-10T04:04:00.000-08:002010-12-10T04:04:02.907-08:00Leadership SECRETS( part 1)How on earth did a slave from a foreign land wind up as prime minister? If we can unravel this mystery then we would finally understand the concept of Leadership.<br />
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Joseph was a man of like passions, his journey from home to a strange land and then to the prison is quite conventional, save for the fact that we don’t end up as prime ministers. I have had course to meditate on the rise to power of Joseph, and how someone who ordinarily should have a slave mentality or at least be somewhat bitter and resentful could emerge as one of the greatest administrators of his time. Now, there is a school of thought that Joseph attained his height of success because he had a peculiar dream and destiny, my question then is…who doesn’t? we are all born with peculiar destinies and we all nurse our distinct dreams. <br />
Again, having acknowledged that it took more than two dreams to land Joseph at his desired and pre ordained destination, I had to admit that it was not just the dream, it was the life and habits of the dreamer. Leadership is therefore not a position, but a state of existence that is reflected in the daily and deliberate practice of a man.<br />
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The second question then is, what was the daily and deliberate practice of Joseph that landed him at the Palace?<br />
1. Joseph had a Dream; we already established this right? We also agreed that it’s not so strange to us. Most of us are already good at this, infact we are a little too good at dreaming, <br />
2. He knew the source of his Dream. The source of your dream determines the cost of your dream. Right from inception, he knew that he had a divine God ordained call to lead and he pursued this call not out of selfish ambition or pride but rather out of a desire to fulfill God’s purpose for his life.<br />
3. He was confident; he didn’t allow his position in his family to affect his dream life, the limitations imposed on him by virtue of his birth position was merely biological and it did not affect his mindset. He was a second to last child but he definitely had a second to none mentality.<br />
4. He was obedient and serviceable: he willingly took food to his brothers even though he knew they were his No. 1 dream killers<br />
5. He was humble; he immediately adapted to the role of a slave rather than being rebellious and resentful.<br />
6. He feared, loved and walked with God; this reflected in his high moral values and principles, the fact that he said no to pharaoh’s wife even though it would have landed him a promotion<br />
7. He was optimistic; he knew the prison was not his last point of call<br />
8. He was industrious; he employed his gifts even among his prison guards and wards.<br />
9. He had a forgiving heart: in that he readily forgave and took back his brothers who dealt him the highest form of betrayal, that in itself was an unusual test of character and landed him the liberation to truly break out from the chains of the past hurts.<br />
There is indeed no doubt in my mind, that if one can carefully study these habits and practices of Joseph, his Greatness will not only be inevitable but will also be uncompromisable!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-4977906208267779672010-11-15T12:56:00.000-08:002010-11-15T12:56:16.491-08:00ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHINGAlmost everyone nurses some sort of dream, vision, ambition or passion as the case may be, however we are soon discouraged and limited by our prevalent situations. Life is often about bridging that gap between your (sight) where you presently are and your (vision) where you want to be. What ensures that we reach our destination or otherwise is not the economic situation, family background or even relationship status, it is our ATTITUDE. <br />
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By ‘attitude’, I mean a general positive and productive disposition towards things and life in general. Sometimes we embark on a journey or project with so much enthusiasm, with little more than a dream and a gift or skill as the case may be, just like Joseph the son of Jacob. We often dream but we don’t calculate and just like Joseph we fall victim to envious peers, colleagues and family, we confront that bait that entices us to compromise our values, and no matter how right the decisions we take in life are, we often end up in prison.<br />
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The truth is, what guarantees you success is not the nobility of your actions but the carriage of the right attitude. It was Joseph’s attitude towards life and as regards his gift that translated his prison into his palace.<br />
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Your attitude affects everything. It affects the way you carry yourself. Joseph had the carriage of a leader even though he was one of the least in his household, and regardless of the fact that he was exposed to slavery at an early age by his brothers. He became the leader in prison because he embraced the secret of promotion, which is to always put in your best even in a worst case scenario.<br />
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Your attitude determines the way you see, while others saw the prison as a cage that locked them away from their freedom, Joseph decided to see the prison as a perfect platform to express his gifting.<br />
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His attitude did not pay off ‘immediately’, but it paid off big time.<br />
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The next time life throws you into that very uneasy and uncomforting situation, like it did to me only recently, rather than grumble and be bitter, why don’t you put on the right attitude, an attitude for success, increase and breakthrough. It doesn’t mean the road will not be bumpy, but you sure will enjoy the ride and even if you don’t hit the destination target, you definitely will be ahead of the park. What looks like a difficult and impossible situation may well announce you to the king’s presence. <br />
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Finally, I leave you with this food for thought. the prison is not a place to wail and moan, it is not a place to idle away, don’t waste or underestimate the people you meet in your prison, they may well be your network out of there. Wear a smile, be proactive, watch and pray and most importantly always give thanks.<br />
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© Tochi Eze Nov 2010.Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-14427130174419531622010-10-20T06:01:00.000-07:002010-10-20T06:01:19.863-07:00My 'thesis'on doorsI once had the acquaintance of a one year old boy, his name is obiora and he is the son of a family friend. Obiora at one had an unusual fascination with doors, the implication of this was that he was always trying his hand on any and every door, of course at that age, his hand could barely touch the door knob and if he was able to stretch himself, he would succeed in slamming the door on his fingers( ouch). This did not make him relent, the guy just had a knack for doors, it was thus my pondering on this observation that inspired this write-up and as I share this thesis with you I hope as always that you will identify at least one point that is educative and informative to you and for your application.<br />
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Doors generally represent a ‘legitimate’ entrance or exit to and from a place. I use the word legitimate basically because there is a presupposition that thieves don’t come in through the front door, in their sly nature they have to employ a more sinister approach, and if they must go through a door( whether front or back) it has to be a break in.<br />
1. A door symbolizes a semblance of possibilities that await you on the other side of the door, possibilities that are so treasured that they need to be guarded by a wooden or iron sense of security. A door doesn’t open merely by invitation, acquaintance or urgency, what guarantees the opening is either you have a key, or someone on the other side has a key and is willing to open for you.<br />
2. A door also symbolizes transition, exit from a place and entry or at least the demand of entry into another place, we are constantly in motion, it is what makes us unique, the ability to detest stagnancy, in life generally and in finances specifically and so it is this life of transit that often brings us before doors, unfortunately most of us get stuck there. <br />
3. A door usually attracts people of like minded destination, the truth is that if whatever on the other side is worth the while, chances are that you won’t be the only one in front of the door trying to get in. while you are waiting for the door to open, take time to be friendly, meet people that are waiting on your side of the door to get in, the fact you have the same destination doesn’t mean that they are your competition, if you network hard enough, you’d be surprised to meet someone that has the keys to the door or has already made contacts with someone on the other side.<br />
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This write-up is the exclusive copyright of Tochi Eze and cannot be reproduced or forwarded without her consent.Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-61946009482579366252010-10-20T05:56:00.000-07:002010-10-20T05:56:32.480-07:00The Ultimate BrandBrand loyalty, as I have recently observed is the combination of a number of factors that result in a customer preferring a particular product or service over others that are of a similar nature. Most enterprises have realized the importance branding in the success of their businesses and hence a lot of financing is invested into developing a company’s brand loyalty as it were, ranging from beautifully designed graphic logo’s, innovative advertisements and excellent customer / service delivery system, they all strive for a niche that stands them out in the market.<br />
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As human beings, we all have our distinct brands that set us apart from the crowd, that make more readily appealing and desirable that every other person and that ultimately yields us better returns in life, these brands could be consciously or unconsciously developed.<br />
Allow me to put it this way, a brand in a layman’s point of view is simply what a product, company or person is known as remembered by. X-pression reminds us of quality hair piece, Coca-Cola reminds of refreshing beverage, identita Nigeria connotes brand loyalty, amongst others. These brands did not just exist, they are a result of a deliberate line of thoughts, policies and actions, and like in the case of Coca-Cola, the effect has spanned generations, and yet, I will tell you a most perfect brand, whether for an individual, corporation or government, LOVE is a perfect brand. Scripture speaking in John 13.34 and 35 said that we should love one another, and that by so doing, all men will know that we are his disciples. LOVE is the ultimate brand, it sells itself always, wards off competition and the recipients never forget thereby generating the best form of brand loyalty.<br />
Imagine if every time someone thought of you or your business, a nice warm feeling came over the person who by the way doesn’t mean to date you?<br />
To love your neighbor is more than a cliché and it expresses itself in the smallest acts of kindness. For instance, when last did you pay for a stranger sitting next to you in a bus? How often do you smile at a beggar while giving him money? When last did you pray for a sick neighbor not because you were asked to but because you truly cared? How often do you forgive a wrong without an apology? <br />
The extent of your brand communication ensures that your business still thrives even after you retire, its generally what you are remembered for. What comes to your mind when you think of princess Diana, mother Theresa, or Martin Luther King(JR)? these are people that are no longer with us and yet their actions still speak for them.<br />
Finally, you cannot give what you don’t have, no business should sell what it is not prepared to buy because it douses credibility completely. The only qualification to loving others is to love yourself. Now, loving yourself goes beyond having a high self esteem or confidence the ability to make wise and credible decisions for your life, not just because they make you feel good but because it is the right thing to do.<br />
My point exactly? Having seen the importance of branding and identifying the ultimate brand, we need to start making conscious and deliberate efforts to build or increase our already existing brand loyalty and like every good brand, it cannot happen overnight, but after a while you’ll eventually build that perfect reputation that you want people to remember you for! <br />
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This write-up is the exclusive copyright of Tochi Eze and cannot be reproduced or forwarded without her consent.Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-61022288707884646222010-10-20T05:48:00.000-07:002010-10-20T05:48:08.633-07:00HOW TO WEATHER THE STORMS OF LIFE!Whether used literally or metaphorically, the word ‘storm’ often depicts an unusually troublesome and turbulent situation that is difficult to control, yet, having the capacity to drown a person. Research has shown that the negative effects of storms on those who experience them is so outrageous that they either hardly come out alive and if they do, the damage would have scarred them thoroughly. In our journey in life, we often experience the harsh and cruel nature of these storms, and even though we are not sailors at sea, the negative effects are often the same. Whether it is the death of a loved one, a failed marriage, financial crisis, or a health condition, the list is endless, the point is that we don’t always come out alive and if we do, we would have been so badly bruised and scarred that life itself hardly recognizes us<br />
Storms are inevitable, the are a necessary pointer that we are sailing the right direction, I also console myself with the fact that every storm has a time limit, they are not meant to last forever, eventually everything calms down. The only thing that troubles me is the damage that would have been done at the end of the storm. However these damages, as I have recently observed can be controlled and minimized if we could only understand and apply these basic principles.<br />
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• UNDERSTAND THE WIND OF CHANGE:<br />
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The wind is one element that can only be felt but never seen, Change, is just like the wind, it can at best be discerned but you can’t really tell the angle it will come from. Change, like they say, is the only constant thing and it is a necessity to keep us moving on and keep the earth moving round, change is confrontational and as such we have to face it square and tackle it head on, we don’t have to run at the face of every challenge or strain, how can you expand except you stretch yourself? Each time life presents a seemingly shut door to you, its not an indicator for you to cower back in fear or defeat, we have to always understand that a shut door doesn’t end the journey, it only means we have to look for another passage.<br />
• UNDERSTAND THE WAVE OF OPPOSITION:<br />
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The scenery at the beach is usually breathtaking, for anyone who has been careful enough to observe, assuming you fall into the class of observers, have you ever noticed the way the waves rise and fall? With such intensity, they seem almost on a mission to cause havoc.<br />
Waves are a reaction of the sea to the wind. The sea, not being very accommodating reacts in such velocity to the wind, no wonder the waves are usually more intense at evening and night when the wind is more pronounced.<br />
The wave of opposition is simply the earth’s (including man) physical reaction to the wind of change. The society and life in general is not very accommodating to our situations and challenges, people tend to judge what they don’t understand, ourselves inclusive. Take it all in good stride. It’s called the ‘wave’ syndrome. You don’t have to react to every opposition you face, this stage is very sensitive because the wind of change has thrown you off course and the waves of opposition threaten to swallow you, don’t wallow in self pity, recognize this stage of the storm and take it all in good stride.<br />
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• UNDERSTAND THE ANCHOR OF THE SHIP: <br />
The sea, just like life, is not static. It is in constant motion and operates in such a way that if you are left at its mercy, you either sink or float.<br />
The anchor is usually but not always in the form of a metallic hook that is thrown from the ship to get a grip on something solid enough to prevent the ship from sailing away once the engine is off.<br />
The will to stay afloat at the end of the storm is not enough, you have to identify that one mark that you hold unto for dear life to keep you from floating away, to prevent your essence from being drained out of you so that when the storm is finally over an the sun rises again, the world will not have to send a search team to fish you out.<br />
For various people it differs, but for me its is God, he is the one person I can hold unto for dear life and no matter how weak my grip I know he will never let me go, and besides, when the sun eventually rise, I want to be seen by his side! <br />
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This write-up is the exclusive copyright of Tochi Eze and cannot be reproduced or forwarded without her consent.Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-75484755273777671182010-09-21T14:57:00.000-07:002010-09-21T14:57:29.442-07:00Champions League<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqkZwk8HOaschUHEf6CXYZK7KUbe9MVtELhN_eB2QsD2kUS5KE7KJf9Vvzc2mqLsDgL3m-az5b_UH4QiypNF7lyjsy0H7r_pVOKVpTgpdxZ0USxDo9kDEaiDPw1eIQ-LUjcSVPI-D5h_KY/s1600/champions+league.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" qx="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqkZwk8HOaschUHEf6CXYZK7KUbe9MVtELhN_eB2QsD2kUS5KE7KJf9Vvzc2mqLsDgL3m-az5b_UH4QiypNF7lyjsy0H7r_pVOKVpTgpdxZ0USxDo9kDEaiDPw1eIQ-LUjcSVPI-D5h_KY/s1600/champions+league.bmp" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The U.E.F.A have consistently conducted the champions league since 1955, they have succeeded not only in improving the quality of football appreciation worldwide, not even in the entertainment they provide to all football lovers albeit sometimes life threatening, but also in generating economic wealth for governments. It is considerably the most watched sporting event in world history generating an average of 100 million viewers. However, I do not wish to concern myself with the UEFA, I want to bring to your notice another sport, if one might call it that , where the top players are referred to as the champions league.</div><br />
It is called the race of life, and the players here who have and can master the rules of the game and apply them are referred to as champions.<br />
According to the oxford dictionary, a champion is a person who has surpassed all rivals in a sporting contest, and like I mentioned earlier this particular sport is called the race of life.<br />
Now, in this sport, recruitment is not done annually but daily, per second for that matter. A lot of people participate, about 6 billion actually but only a handful emerge as champions, and I’ll tell you why. It is because they possess certain qualities that every sports man must possess. Let us consider some of these qualities.<br />
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1. Skill: oh yes, this people are a set of creative and innovative kind of people. They are incredibly smart, knowledgeable in the affairs of life and always looking to improve their skills by seeking for wisdom.<br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">2. Strength: one of the strongest tools of any sportsman is his strength, the field is not a place for sissies, neither is the track, these champions have a peculiar kind of strength though, they rely not just on natural ability but on the supernatural capacity of a divine God. They understand the phrase ‘the horse is prepared for battle, but deliverance is of the Lord.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">3. Passion: to take away passion from a player is to take away the life from the game. Passion is always the reason why we go that extra mile. These champions understand passion, they stand for what they believe in and they believe in what they stand for.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">4. Focus: the ultimate focus of any player is to score the goal, hit the target or cross the finish line. Again my champions know this too well, that is why they can’t afford distractions, they won’t allow the fleeting pleasures of life to keep them from finishing well.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">5. Team spirit: The peculiarity of this sport, is that it is a race where everyone runs for the finishing line, but only the true champions carry others along. A true champion never enjoys any victory without people by his side!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">My name is Tochi Eze, I am a champion and I want you to join my champions league!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-64173762313412715132010-09-19T13:51:00.000-07:002010-09-19T13:51:08.976-07:00HAKUNA MATATA( our problem free philosophy)<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU4YIL6PG8DKh2h3PDcbcEkPSGrWXyFWq-UK0PacK2s-Gd89cuka1p-XE-N3ZmZNbmMxsXQZVwQIv-i6w4I9-xEjlE2T07Pzf1JXBtL6y_boWjqXAwYFxx6SW38k9FtRpdQ5kwMV6LVyML/s1600/hakuna.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" qx="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU4YIL6PG8DKh2h3PDcbcEkPSGrWXyFWq-UK0PacK2s-Gd89cuka1p-XE-N3ZmZNbmMxsXQZVwQIv-i6w4I9-xEjlE2T07Pzf1JXBtL6y_boWjqXAwYFxx6SW38k9FtRpdQ5kwMV6LVyML/s320/hakuna.bmp" width="320" /></a>Let’s face it, Problems are not just a part of our living, they are a birth right! We are a set of problematic people, born into a problematic world and in a problematic era for that matter. Oh yes, we inherit some of these problems, create quite an amount for ourselves, and then bequeath a good portion of the problem legacy to our children.</div><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">By the way, a problem is a situation that poses to be difficult, it may threaten to be harmful or just plain inconvenient, whichever the case is, we don’t want them, but we are stuck with them.</div>Still speaking on problems, we should understand that although they come in different packages, the content is generally the same, for instance, it could be an annoying boss, child, friend, job, car, health condition, finances, the list is endless, basically if you don’t like it but your stuck with it, then it’s a problem.<br />
Why do we have problems? Oh that’s easy, problems are the platforms that propel us to our desired height of victory. We need to look beyond the situation that challenges us, and see the opportunity that lies therein, for instance, if darkness wasn’t a problem, Thomas Edison wouldn’t have had the need to invent the light bulb.<br />
Now I don’t have a problem with problems, there is just no point, we are stuck here, with everything around us rigging of problems needing to be solved and if you have noticed, I have been speaking in general terms, meaning there is NO exclusion. We all are involved and affected. I have a far bigger contention which is…<br />
How do we deal with problems? That’s easy too. We deal with problems by philosophy, oh yes, philosophy. My recent discovery…Problems respond to philosophy. Please don’t get confused just yet, I’ll explain myself.<br />
I don’t mean the philosophy that studies the nature of knowledge, reality and existence, I’m referring to the philosophy that deals with the system of thought or thought process of a particular set of people, example the natural law philosophers and so on.<br />
Back to my point, there are several philosophies( system of thought) that we can use to deal, handle and manage our problems. Some of them are<br />
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• Fear- that’s right, just go ahead, hide, retreat, cower back in shame, but you know what, this philosophy attracts problems big time and for a longer period too.<br />
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• Anger- according to oxford dictionary, it is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure and hostility. Sure, anger is a good way to handle your problems, especially if you want to end up like Adolph Hitler, who channeled his anger from a drunk and abusive father, the untimely death of his mother and his rejection in the German school of art, to acquiring and accumulating military prowess that almost destroyed world peace.<br />
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• Habits-yes, habits always solved the problem, right? I mean, you get into a bad relationship or things don’t work out as planned, and we fall into drugs, just to get your mind off things, except that when your minds gets back from the trip, guess who’s waiting? Mr. Problem. <br />
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• Inhumanity, yes just like Idi amin, take out your problems on people by being cruel and inhumane, but remember, you may not last as long as he did and it definitely doesn’t make you a problem solver.<br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">• Hakuna matata-this as you may suspect is my best philosophy. The Swahili coined phrase simply means no worries. Unfortunately few people understand and employ this tactic, myself inclusive. A life without problems is not attainable, but a life without worries is. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The worry free mind doesn’t deny the existence of the problem, rather it looks at it with the eyes of hope, not with the resignation of impending defeat but with the realization that Life is too short and time is too costly to waste both worrying about a problem that at best has a solution somewhere and at worst, was not designed to drown you.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div>So you decide, what’s your problem free philosophy???<br />
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</div>Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-58424177050117101652010-09-08T15:44:00.000-07:002010-09-08T15:49:51.031-07:00Effects of Pain killers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTfjz1Db68Crg3CFp800kxtrXFFIEMe2cjOSPER9UeF4muIiouevWYaeuZJij9d3KKkgbrHdRp6f2NSAVnM7Eu0owKe5xZNTcMPRmxd5m4aef56O6bFavyqXHwZhVA6FUJiQlCCl-c3_bC/s1600/medicine.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTfjz1Db68Crg3CFp800kxtrXFFIEMe2cjOSPER9UeF4muIiouevWYaeuZJij9d3KKkgbrHdRp6f2NSAVnM7Eu0owKe5xZNTcMPRmxd5m4aef56O6bFavyqXHwZhVA6FUJiQlCCl-c3_bC/s320/medicine.bmp" width="211" /></a></div><br />
Pain, an unpleasant sensory experience, has been described to be the most common reason for medical consultation, it is a major symptom in medical conditions and can significantly interfere with a persons quality of life.<br />
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Whether it’s a headache, a sprained ankle, or a burn from kitchen work, science has taught man that he does not need to condone pain, hence the advent of pain killers, right? Well, wrong!<br />
Let me tell you something about pain, it is usually but not always the symptom of a bigger and often more complex medical condition. So you see, science in all its research, theory and experiment can only come up with a temporary relief, never a lasting cure. how ever lets not get into that argument.<br />
My point is that your local aspirin, whether its ibrupofen, buscopan or good old panadol, can at best offer you a temporary relief, example, you can stop the headache but does it stop the malaria? <br />
I will share with you certain features of these our so called pain killers that we all should know.<br />
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1. It serves as a distraction. Oh yes, it takes your mind off the main problem at hand, never really giving you the opportunity for a proper diagnosis and procuring a lasting relief.<br />
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2. It gives the problem or condition room to grow, because if you are not killing bacteria, then it’s spreading in you.<br />
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3. It always wears off eventually, again, emphasis is placed on the temporary nature of relief it proffers. The pain always comes back because the source is still there.<br />
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4. Last but not least, too much of it, like an overdose for instance, goes straight to your kidney and kills( guess who?)<br />
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Now, enough of this medical gibberish. The point I am trying to make or emphasize is on the pain killers we employ to tackle emotional, psychological and even spiritual hurts.<br />
Just in case you fall into the pain killer group, I’m not too sure the brand you employ, whether it is alcohol, sex, bad habits, lies amongst others, the simple truth is that it never takes away the problem.<br />
Getting drunk to escape an emotional turmoil doesn’t solve anything, eventually you become sober and reality sets in, sleeping with that man is not going to solve the communication problem between the two of you, and lying does not make you more believable or acceptable.<br />
Now, like I mentioned earlier, these so called pain killers, no matter the brand you employ do not solve the problem, at best they only proffer a temporary relief, allow the problems to get compounded, make you addicted and then eventually, they kill you!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-32163154095370099312010-09-04T16:26:00.001-07:002010-09-04T16:26:56.765-07:00Living with Rats!!!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWqsscQgjj0a3-5rCOWsl4_x5ROR2mI2-9IjDw_P80ffBtU90LCt2VBCsal4hFZNJA9TuQkVkvMIjyhmfyWqL2aYS2wF24H-oW12F7ztEYzJ1HNOUDcZwhXCV5u3N_BCuRdoCNNOHoNpVZ/s1600/ratatat.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWqsscQgjj0a3-5rCOWsl4_x5ROR2mI2-9IjDw_P80ffBtU90LCt2VBCsal4hFZNJA9TuQkVkvMIjyhmfyWqL2aYS2wF24H-oW12F7ztEYzJ1HNOUDcZwhXCV5u3N_BCuRdoCNNOHoNpVZ/s320/ratatat.jpg" /></a></div><br />
From my experience (in this area which is quite vast), rodents are presumably the most annoying set of crawling creatures in the whole wide world, and that includes the World Wide Web.<br />
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I mean, they visit un-invited, barge into your privacy, and stay even though they are not welcome. I’m not even talking about their nuisance value, destructive by nature, slimy and boy, are they stinkers.<br />
The worst of these breed in my view, are the Rats.<br />
Now rats, (am guessing), are the no.1 household nuisance, virus and enemy of most houses in Lagos, Nigeria, and contrary to what people think, it doesn’t matter where you live; be it in the suburbs or the slums, they are everywhere.<br />
At this point, I’m sure you are wondering what the point of this write up is? Well, follow me closely.<br />
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QUESTIONS;<br />
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1. Where do rats come from?<br />
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2. Shouldn’t they have a community of their own?<br />
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3. Why do we have to condone them?<br />
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Not being a zoologist and all, I can’t answer the first two, but the answer to the third question is a definite NO. Nobody has to and should condone a rat.<br />
You know what is even more annoying than these rats? The people who share the same features with them, yes- the people-rats!<br />
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Their features again;<br />
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1. they visit un-invited<br />
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2. they barge into your privacy<br />
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3. they stay even when they are not welcome.<br />
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Can you place a name or a face?<br />
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4. they constitute a nuisance<br />
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5. destructive by nature: all they want to do is use up all your stuff, take up all you’ve got, and remain a liability.<br />
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For clarifications, I am not a nasty person, nor am I harsh; I’m only trying to be blunt and educative. <br />
Back to the lesson, I want to share with you four reasons why you shouldn’t condone rats and people-rats.<br />
• In condoning a rat or a people-rat, you leave yourself and your environment dirty and polluted. The saying that bad company corrupts good manners is still true. If you leave them around you long enough, it’s only a matter of time before you start to conform to the environment, and we do not want anything to sabotage our excellent spirit.<br />
• If you condone a rat or a people-rat, you are giving a definite license to destruction.-their gossiping and lies can destroy your relationships, your state of mind and even your homes.<br />
• If you condone a rat or a people-rat, be prepared to stink! Yup, real rats stink, dead or alive, and if you keep up with these people of such poor character traits like lack of integrity, morals or ethics, people may pick up their scent, and attribute it to you.<br />
• If you condone a rat or people –rat, it’s only a matter of time before your health starts deteriorating. You can lose your peace of mind from their too much nagging, lose your self esteem from their criticizing and you can even lose some weight because they will literally feed off you.<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>So you see why you shouldn’t condone a rat, and a people-rat. You owe it to yourself, you owe it to your environment and you owe it to the eco-system!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-4089964205555411922010-09-03T10:53:00.000-07:002010-09-03T11:22:32.206-07:00THE MAN WITHOUT A MASK.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfr-I1YP5YKR70xLJG5ZRqmL5dOVI_M6Xs8jPjdC7Iy4IT_qh3ex1gkERIyqZN-rnbtgQr3itWwEMIbICCEFKWbkC7DcHUMZUPQ3oOje2ESTOWAHdC8qcL8m1IhjtSZAi7BqIdF1jrnrUu/s1600/mask+2.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfr-I1YP5YKR70xLJG5ZRqmL5dOVI_M6Xs8jPjdC7Iy4IT_qh3ex1gkERIyqZN-rnbtgQr3itWwEMIbICCEFKWbkC7DcHUMZUPQ3oOje2ESTOWAHdC8qcL8m1IhjtSZAi7BqIdF1jrnrUu/s200/mask+2.bmp" width="123" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAALv_52lnV3naBOIVY-FeXkNod7ZIe_YOOtQuswBP-xNfwlCsQ0ZwNGYkyEjFUVuuRc66zBN-c1IUr7Gqe_Gnr_kp2BPKNORL7KGxuLoe-p6HmgOxAXRdw3cxNjitbwE6p3RHum41YqAE/s1600/mask.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAALv_52lnV3naBOIVY-FeXkNod7ZIe_YOOtQuswBP-xNfwlCsQ0ZwNGYkyEjFUVuuRc66zBN-c1IUr7Gqe_Gnr_kp2BPKNORL7KGxuLoe-p6HmgOxAXRdw3cxNjitbwE6p3RHum41YqAE/s320/mask.bmp" /></a></div>If you have ever attended or in the least bit watched a masquerade ball, then you will agree with me that it is quite an interest to the eye. It generates a certain kind of excitement or mystery of not being able to tell who is behind that mask, However, If you come right down to it, that is all there is to it…the Entertainment! It proffers no logic at all, I mean, why would anyone take the pains of attending a dinner, getting a beautiful dress or suit, getting your hair and make up all done, only to cover it up in a mask…it’s simply beyond me to understand this great fashion mystery that have spanned centuries. We might as well just wear rags then cover our faces so people don’t recognize us. The simple but truthful fact is that people who need to wear masks are often people with something to hide, and that includes zorro!<br />
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Life on the other hand is one big masquerade ball, and we are all in default attendance. It provides the perfect platform because no one really knows what is in the heart and mind of the person standing next to him. We wine and dine with people of questionable character and morals, we live amongst thieves and fraudsters, sometimes we even marry them and start families with them, all the while, without the slightest inclination as to their true identity.<br />
A Man can wear a mask for entertainment, but nothing beats the disguise of a man who pretends.<br />
Pretense is the ability to portray yourself as something that you are not , it is the highest form of deceit and has existed as long as time.<br />
However un-justifiable these pretenders are, there is a worse a lot, for to wear a mask to deceive others, I can understand is simply wickedness but to deceive oneself… that is sickening, a symptom of a mental deficiency that is rummaging our society today.<br />
A lot of us have been scarred by the harsh experiences of life and if only we will take of our masks we will soon recognize one or two of our scars on the body of our contemporizes and friends.<br />
Now, like I said earlier, life, here on earth, is one big event, a masquerade ball with an enormous attendance. Who then is the man that will dare to be different, to be distinct and peculiar? Who will dare attend the ball without a mask?? I’ll tell you a little about him…<br />
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• He is a Man with a good strength of character, he will not cheapen himself by gaining from others through deceit, more so he will not cheat himself by self deceit.<br />
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• He is a Man with a strong sense of confidence, he refuses to be vulnerable to people, he is not ashamed of the scars he obtained in his journey of life, and he is not afraid of what people will think when they see his scars.<br />
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• He is a Man who is Identity Conscious, he knows his strengths and weaknesses, yet he wants to be seen and accepted for who he truly is.<br />
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Do you dare to be this Man??? Then take away your mask of pretense and give the world the honor of knowing the real you!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-77552206343288475622010-08-23T07:30:00.000-07:002010-08-23T07:30:17.575-07:00I MEAN BUSINESSThe term business tends to generate a particular idea of buying and selling in the minds of people, and to a tiny extent it is correct. However business, as we will soon discover entails so much more, buying and selling is just a tiny fragment of it.<br />
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The English Encarta dictionary defines it as the ‘commercial activity involving the exchange of money for goods or services’.<br />
This, in my opinion does not proffer much solution, at least for the purpose of this write-up, so I’ll come out with it in my own terms, plain and simple. Now, business, as far as I’m concerned is simply an opportunity to make money…am I speaking your language?<br />
At this point I either have your interest or I have succeeded in placing a frown of suspicion on your face, whichever the case is, I have some explaining to do.<br />
Let’s start from the award winning concept of ‘money’.<br />
No matter how religious, moral or principled you are, you can not deny the necessity and effectiveness of money in the life of a man and a nation at large. To live in ignorance of this fact at this stage of economic awareness is just plain foolishness ( forgive my language). Except you were delivered to your parents by storks which is actually an impossibility, you have been spending, rather living on the availability of money or the lack of it. For instance, you were not born for free, your parents had to pay the hospital bills or the mid wives bills and I mean this for most standard deliveries. I can also assure you that at the point of your death, quite an amount is going to be spent on your funeral rites. <br />
Maybe a brief history of the origin of money will add more color to this picture.<br />
Money is used primarily as consideration or exchange of a desired good or service. Money, as in physical cash hasn’t always existed though, the practice then was to exchange a good for a good, product for product and service for service. The rationale behind this is that nothing goes for free, at least in a commercial sense, a certain price is fixed for everything and payment of that price is what guarantees exclusive right of ownership.<br />
If God, the creator of the universe structured the earth in such a way that the farmer has to sow before he reaps, what makes you think you will get anything from life without putting in something referred to consideration. Even your very existence is because you have a primary purpose and assignment here on earth, you were not created for free so don’t expect to anything on earth to be otherwise, this is where money comes in, money is one consideration that has been modified over the years to ensure universal acceptability. So, without being self righteous about it, the existence of money is justified, even by God.<br />
Having looked at the concept of money howbeit insufficiently, I suggest we examine the other aspect of business, which is simply ‘the opportuniy’ to make money. Now, opportunity simply means a chance, and one that offers a kind of advantage( Encarta dictionary).<br />
Imagine what we mean by a chance to make money?<br />
Contrary to what most of us believe, chance or opportunity doesn’t go about parading itself to people, you actually have to go looking for it or in the least, walk in the consciousness of it. Nothing provides a better opportunity to make money than doing business.<br />
I was once of the opinion that I wasn’t cut out for business, I couldn’t afford the running around it entailed, or the patience it required to source the customers for your funds, I have since learnt otherwise.<br />
First, anyone who has ever bought anything in his or her life has actually acquired the skill of buying and selling.<br />
Second, we established that it doesn’t have to be a tangible product, anyone who is teaching for money is as much in business as the one who is into supply of car parts. Now, by teaching I don’t mean someone who is in the employ of a school, the truth is that you are not into business if you are making the money for some other person for a token, fee or salary.<br />
This business, in the real sense of it advocates entrepreneurship, and it’s not as hard as some of us think it is.<br />
We can all be entrepreneurs, as long as we are not all selling the same product, you pay for my services and I pay for yours. This is where Innovation comes in.<br />
We need money, an opportunity to make money and then more money, for ourselves, for our children and for our nation.<br />
Nigerians are incredibly smart and innovative people, full of raw talent waiting to be exploited, I believe in the strength and riches of this nation embedded in its people, I just wish we could break out of the social structures and stereotypes of civil service, enough of unemployment, why look for a job when you can create an industry? People will pay for anything, even for you to laugh, if you do it differently.<br />
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The economy of this nation is dependent on you, set up that business TODAY!!!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-64351955777859771292010-06-22T07:37:00.001-07:002010-09-03T13:23:07.933-07:00THE MIRACLE OF BIRTH<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVhlRLaLARvGTz1u2be8UZOIohWGpFWo4kMp4XCn5-MD9EOlHLXx5NPngnWlurmqpSn6nQauVYrS1Y7jeoG5ss23TntxlMkOWH4JG2FfSgqEN_FRewyvA5ZYPzTm3KshuE4lg-mm5BPi1R/s1600/baby1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVhlRLaLARvGTz1u2be8UZOIohWGpFWo4kMp4XCn5-MD9EOlHLXx5NPngnWlurmqpSn6nQauVYrS1Y7jeoG5ss23TntxlMkOWH4JG2FfSgqEN_FRewyvA5ZYPzTm3KshuE4lg-mm5BPi1R/s320/baby1.jpg" /></a></div>Understanding the biological makeup of a woman could be quite complex, especially when one is not into human anatomy or medical practice. However the fact that I am a woman myself has made the task somewhat easy.<br />
In my brief study, one thing that really marveled me in the body of the woman is her reproductive role, capacity and system.<br />
From the point of birth, the woman possesses all it takes to give life, even though it doesn’t really develop till a certain stage of her life.<br />
Again, the womb in my opinion is the most intriguing of all the features of the female reproductive system. Its in the womb that a child is conceived, nurtured before finally brought forth.<br />
I’m certain all this talk of biology has left you wondering, which brings me to the point of this write up.<br />
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Do you know the human mind is very similar to the female womb?<br />
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• The mind, just like the womb, is the place where ideas are conceived, nurtured, before they are brought forth.<br />
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• Conception depends on external factors; the ovum depends on sperm, while the brain depends on knowledge.<br />
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• The womb provides conducive atmosphere for gestation, and so does the mind, it provides the temperature for the development of your ideas, through its storehouse of information and experience.<br />
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• As fetus is aborted from the womb that is the same way ideas can be aborted from our minds sadly by the mother of both baby and idea.<br />
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• When gestation period is complete, the womb releases the child to the world, so does the mind, as soon as the idea has been fully developed and strategized by the mind, it releases it for implementation.<br />
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• The natural process of release mentioned above is usually painful but worth the pain, so is the effort put to actualize our plans, ideas etc<br />
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We are ALL pregnant and should be expectant, men and women alike, now whether it is with a baby or an idea, one thing we need for our wombs or mind is nourishment, and this is more so during the term of such pregnancy. The woman needs her nutrients, her diets, her exercises, while the mind needs knowledge, experience, and direction.<br />
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Lack of these usually lead to mal nourishment and the inevitable deficiency of your baby or idea.<br />
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The point of this write up again;<br />
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• Study to acquire knowledge.<br />
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• Participate to gain experience<br />
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• Inquire to receive direction.<br />
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FEED YOUR MIND!!!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-59467542652854451472010-06-14T15:18:00.000-07:002010-09-03T13:32:53.779-07:00The Spirit of PATRIOTISM<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimltrsHA0jPJKAlVdmrt59dyendC86DpzGkq1R_RfrNaKHuH3xP2wPIEnZAs-eYm0ncnFiVQypxOXi5Ub-JshZP7fBWaO1VW5d1O69PV6YV8hYSm_g_vlw7IXaX3BO9Joii9f2_FWBqcAu/s1600/nu+naija.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="481" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimltrsHA0jPJKAlVdmrt59dyendC86DpzGkq1R_RfrNaKHuH3xP2wPIEnZAs-eYm0ncnFiVQypxOXi5Ub-JshZP7fBWaO1VW5d1O69PV6YV8hYSm_g_vlw7IXaX3BO9Joii9f2_FWBqcAu/s640/nu+naija.bmp" width="640" /></a></div>I remember singing the National anthem throughout my childhood years, its not like we had a choice, it was just an essential part of our education system, and I’m sure that the experience is not peculiar to me. However, what has got me thinking is the fact that I sang the anthem so many times but I never really listened to it, until recently.<br />
Let me refresh your memory, the first stanza says; Arise O compatriots, Nigeria’s call obey. Unfortunately many of us have not answered to this call, for a number of reasons. Some of us can’t hear the call because we are not listening, some others are just too busy chasing after seemingly more important things, and yet the third group is just plain angry with the country. Maybe a little understanding of who a patriot is will clarify the picture.<br />
According to the Encarta dictionary; a Patriot is a proud supporter or defender of his or her country and its way of life. Note the word PROUD. <br />
Question: where are all the proud Nigerians?<br />
A true patriot has certain characteristics that I want us to look at.<br />
•INSIGHT: the ability to see clearly into a complex or complicated situation. It’s the power of vision. A patriot is some one who doesn’t see his nation as it is but rather as what he wants it to be, when every other person sees faults and mistakes, the patriot sees only hope and possibilities.<br />
•STRENGTH OF CHARACTER: the Patriot usually depicts a strong strength of character, little wonder it is so, every thing around him suggests to give up on his vision, on his cause and on his nation, the leaders are corrupt, and exhibit no sign of remorse but yet his level of commitment is unwavering. He is also very matured, because it takes a mentally matured man not to speak ill of his country no matter what. Imagine a scenario, where your mother is sick, and there is a possibility it is fatal, you don’t wake up every morning and cry ‘Away with you, you sick old woman’( if you are in your right senses) rather you encourage her, tell her to be strong, assure her of recovery e.t.c<br />
•LEADERSHIP: the Patriot is a true leader in every ramification, a leader always protects his own, no matter the cost, a good shepherd is willing to die for the sheep, as also a good captain for his ship and also a good pilot for his crew. If you have ever tried to attack chicks when the mother hen is there, you will understand what I mean. She will fight you with all she has, just to keep her chicks safe and protected. A patriot will be willing to take extreme measures where necessary to protect his own nation.<br />
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Where do you and I come in? there is a divine mandate for us to leave our nation better than we met it. It’s the law of replenishing the earth, this is one platform that is begging for our attention, and it is totally free. It is called the platform of patriotism, where every one is a positive thinker and positive speaker.<br />
What have you been saying about Nigeria? The prodigal son may have left with the loot, Judas may have betrayed Jesus, our leaders may have disappointed us, but all these should not change the cause of the mission.<br />
Our mission is for a better Nigeria, the laborers are the patriots which are you and I, our tool is our mouth and the words we speak and our zeal will shade us from the heat.<br />
Remember, Patriotism doesn’t mean overlooking the wrongs, but rather commitment to the mission.<br />
Listen; can you hear the call? It says Arise O compatriots.<br />
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Speak a positive word about our country today!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-91236957009418529332010-06-10T15:06:00.001-07:002010-09-03T16:16:21.260-07:007even Top STRATEGIES for Winning!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTu1AuffsOHMyl-OBA_5pO82QHIZHwxa5DrB4k4ciUfnCDlHDuKpLKqg5MmldAeTYE3YUzEtSYg3MRvAGufdlz6RH9pTAgKVcFyWsMUBuq55mqfZPrUggigYjbCocuc24mugQcmDHExy57/s1600/sportsmen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTu1AuffsOHMyl-OBA_5pO82QHIZHwxa5DrB4k4ciUfnCDlHDuKpLKqg5MmldAeTYE3YUzEtSYg3MRvAGufdlz6RH9pTAgKVcFyWsMUBuq55mqfZPrUggigYjbCocuc24mugQcmDHExy57/s320/sportsmen.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Life is as much a game as It is a Race, and just like in every good game, only the players that master the rules of the game emerge consistently as winners.<br />
Now Winning is as much a mindset as it is a Reality, whether in our academics pursuits, career, marriage and even business, most people play to win, unfortunately also, most people don’t play fair-they go as far as employing tactics such as manipulation, corruption, deceit, selfish ambition, to outsmart and out shine the others-all of which are not necessary because he who cheats to win at a game is not a winner, but a cheat who is enjoying a temporary victory in anticipation of a permanent fall.<br />
I’ll like to share with you, seven strategies, which if properly and consistently employed will enable and empower you to win Fair and Square in all spheres of your life.<br />
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#1. OPTIMISM: Yes, having the right mindset. No sane person enters a competition or starts a race and entertains ideas that he will lose. its what I call the ‘winning spirit’. True Victory starts in your heart. I suggest that whatever project it is you want to undertake in life, embark on it with the right positive attitude, apply for that job with the right positive mentality, enter into that marriage with the right mindset, be sure that if it’s never been done before, you can always be the one to start it, If there is just one person qualified, why wont it be you? I Hope you are getting the picture.<br />
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#2. RESEARCH: always investigate, find out in advance the rules of the game, talk to people who have been there before you…this will always set you on edge over your contemporaries. I mean, we all know that if you are going to write an exam, you should study past questions? So why wont you study the history of the company that is granting you that interview? If you are smart enough not to marry some one whom you know nothing of then bear in mind that that company is smart enough not to employ someone whom knows nothing of it. This applies in every sphere of your life. It pays to ask questions!<br />
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#3. PREPARATION: this is one of the basics, matter of fact 90 % of what determines the outcome of any game or sport is the level of preparedness of the players. No matter how many questions you ask, if you don’t do your home work, you won’t win the prize. According to John Maxwell, preparation sharpens your talent, so no matter how good you are, there will always be the external factor.<br />
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#4. FOCUS: I’ll put it this way, draw a mental picture of what you want, keep your eyes fixed on it, run towards it and don’t stop till you get there. Imagine a scenario, where an athlete in a track race, who was off to a pretty good start, well prepared and ahead of his colleagues, then suddenly he hears the cheering crowd and decides to stop and wave at them-while the race is still on. Two things will happen, he will slow himself down, and his colleagues will overtake him. Unfortunately some of us are a little too much like this athlete, you started off with a picture, then you see a little success and then lose focus, all to a temporary fleeting distraction of wealth or fame. Success is not a destination, it’s a race and one that doesn’t stop till your time is up. Remember, no matter how high you think you have reached, you can still fall, so keep your eyes on the finish line.<br />
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#5: PLAY TO WIN: this is what I like to call excellence. Whatever it is you do, I want you to have an A+ mentality. As entertaining as we think sports is, the players don’t play to entertain, they play to win, because a lot is already at stake for them, after putting so much hard work, they couldn’t care less if you find them amusing or even challenging, they are there for the prize. So should you, don’t get married for the sake of it, don’t just write an exam if you think you are not ready, don’t manage anything, if its not good enough, then it is no good at all. Put your best or don’t play at all.<br />
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#6. PERSEVERANCE: Have you ever heard of an endurance walk, you are expected to walk for miles, without a necessary purpose or direction, the aim basically is to test your stamina, how much heat you are able to take. <br />
Your stamina (whether mental, emotional or spiritual) is one thing that will definitely be tested in the race of life. Sometimes the storms of life become so unbearable and yet you are expected to bear it and even take it all in good stride. Your desire to get to the finish line, should keep you on track, no matter how long the race is, or how many hurdles you have to jump or even how strained your muscles are.<br />
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#7. TEAM SPIRIT: This I feel is the most Important, possibly for my own sentimental reasons. Remember that in the race of life, you are not the only participant, we ALL are running the same race, all members of the same team, and all running for the same but distinct prize. what do you do when you see your fellow team player down on the field? Logic will say run ahead and leave him there, but wisdom and the true spirit of championship requires you should stop and pick him up. Bearing in mind that the next fall may be yours. The ability to carry each other along is where the team spirit lies…TRUE VICTORY IS NOT HIM WHO WINS THE PRIZE, BUT HIM WHO WINS THE HEART OF THE PEOPLE! There is no sense using and exploiting people, because at the end of the day, we all need each other!<br />
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A careful study and implementation of these strategies will evidently make you a winner in life. Run your race as I run mine, and I do look forward to celebrating with you at the finish line!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-42377274832982473262010-06-02T16:10:00.000-07:002010-06-02T16:10:13.345-07:00Branding that 'New' Business!A lot of talk about branding goes on in the corporate world, and little wonder it is so because research has proven that branding has been the source of the rise or fall of many business empires. <br />
According to the Encarta dictionary, branding is the<br />
identification of product with manufacturer: the use of advertising, distinctive design, and other means to make consumers associate a specific product with a specific manufacturer<br />
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It suffices to say therefore that branding is a way of playing to the sensibilities of a target market or an already existing market, in order to create a lasting impression of your product that will reflect in increased sales.<br />
Anyway, the question is how to you create an impression/brand for a non-existing business, or better put, a business plan that is so young that it doesn’t even have a market yet? This is where I come in, I will share with you certain procedures, which are simple really and which will definitely aid you in creating a brand!<br />
•First, we need to tell the market that we are around, how can you create an impression if they don’t even know you exist? How do we do this, ever heard of freelance? Yup! That’s the secret, make yourself free or so affordable, people are people, and free things just has its way of exciting and attracting us.<br />
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•Always deliver, the only other thing better that freebies, is when the freebies carries content. Every body wants a free doughnut but somehow everybody expects that the free doughnut doesn’t taste as nice as the ones we pay for, it’s all psych. Let them know that your doughnut is not just free, but it tastes even better. Give them for free the value they can’t get even where they pay.<br />
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•Deliver Content, but always leave them wanting more, wet their appetites, give them the impression that as good as it gets, you have more, better where it came from, always leave them curious.<br />
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•Be available, be accessible, and let your business have a personality, always apply to the sensibilities of your market. It won’t hurt to create a customer service relationship.<br />
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•Make yourself scarce, let them look for you; this must be after you are sure that you have warmed yourself into their hearts.<br />
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•Repackage yourself, not the content- at this stage, you may want to consult with an image designer of some sort, remember, don’t just create an image for impressions, but build an image that will last.<br />
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•Come out with a big bang-and name your price!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5647777386397291133.post-54505144422777376152010-06-02T15:35:00.000-07:002010-06-02T15:35:39.602-07:00The Principle of Priority!I have this cousin ( chidiebere) who is very dear to me, a comely fellow, focused and ambitious. OK maybe a bit too ambitious. I have to admit, he worries me a bit. Being of the Catholic Faith, he hopes to be a priest, he also wants to be a lawyer, a doctor, a professor, and then some.<br />
It’s not that I have anything against him going after his dreams, I mean, it’s the very thing I profess. It’s also not that I doubt his competence to accomplish this feat, because I am of the opinion that human beings are created to be multifaceted, we have the capacity to do several things and play several roles-it’s all part of our intelligent makeup and it’s also one of the things that distinguish us from other animals.<br />
Back to Chidiebere, the problem I have with him is that he is an ambitious but confused 17 year old. I have since concluded that his confusion is as a result of lack of priority, which is an evidence of the absence of goal setting.<br />
Inasmuch as every one should Inculcate the I CAN mentality, Inasmuch as we are created to be multifaceted, Inasmuch as we want to go out there and change the world, we must understand that Excellence means setting several goals and hitting our targets, one at a time.<br />
Now where does priority come in? Simple.Set the goals you want achieved, it doesn’t have to be something as dramatic as a career path, it could be a list of things you want to buy at the grocery store, or just plainly your to-do list. Place them in the order of their importance to you, or in the order of their immediate feasibility-we were thought in Economics that it is called, Scale of Preference.<br />
This affords us the opportunity to focus on each target at a time, bearing in mind that general expertise is NO expertise!<br />
The ability to prioritize is pivotal to achieving our set goals in life; unfortunately not many people know this. Over ambition is good, great in fact, but please, go after your ambitions, one after the other.<br />
This may seem a bit difficult, especially if you are as helpless and naive as my cousin is. I’d like to help by proffering certain criteria you may like to consider in prioritizing your goals.<br />
• Which is most important generally?<br />
• Which is most important to you?<br />
• Which is more feasible?<br />
• Which is more affordable?<br />
• Which is short term?<br />
• Which is long term?<br />
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There is no specific mode for considering these criteria, examine them individually and consider the plan that best suits you; however I recommend that you start with the ones that can be achievable in less time. In exams we are told to always go for the easiest questions first; and I suggest you do the same!Tochi Ezehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09392533377800556599noreply@blogger.com4